My Grudge is not ending!

A new world. A new life. Learning magic, making new friends and living out my dream(s).

All the while listening to a random God telling me to "forgive, forget and move on"

I seemed to be a vengeful spirit reincarnated into another world, but I think I'm peaceful enough.

So why is it that God keeps telling to me move on, and my friends keep begging me to never get angry at them?